The Ultimate Wedding Crasher? You might be wondering how this is possible. Am I the ultimate wedding crasher, obsessed with free food, drinks, and dancing the night away with someone’s weird uncle? Nope, I was a cater waiter or wedding server. I did this job off and on for many years throughout my 20s and 30s. I did this job in different parts of Canada and New Zealand…and I loved it. You learn a lot…